So as I told you I have been married for almost 6 years now, let me share you some of the most annoying questions I encountered in my life so far.
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When are you getting married?
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How long have you been dating?
- ere did you found him?
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Where are you having your reception?
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You’re going to have a DJ, right?
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You’re going to have a live band, right?
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Where are you going on your honeymoon?
- Aren’t we getting big?
- Do you have kids?
- Why not?
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When are you guys going to have kids?
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When are you having kids?
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Are you thinking of having kids?
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When are you going to start a family?
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You want kids, right?
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When do you think you’ll have some kids?
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Don’t you want a baby?
- Don’t you like children?
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When do you think you’ll want a baby?
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Aren’t you afraid that you’re going to wait too long?
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Don’t you ever want kids?
- _____ is pregnant again with her 2nd child, when are you gonna have one?
- How come you don’t have kids yet?
- Does your husband want to have children?
- Aren’t you lonely?
- What else is there in life if you don’t have children?
- Why aren’t you fulfilling your nurturing role?
- Who’s going to take care of you when you are old and weak?
- Don’t you want to experience the beauty of motherhood?\
- Don’t you want to be a mother?
Sometimes these type of questions put a lot of pressure on somebody. In the beginning it was really strange having to have to answer this questions but now I just don’t let these people get into me. I’m sure you have heard and know some really annoying questions too, would love to hear about it.
Those questions are familiar. I get asked most of those questions a lot. The biggest question I get is about why I don’t have any kids. Very annoying.
I got some list also,Jade.Sometimes,i just wanna bite their neck off.Especially when they have this particular tone of asking that they knew your answer.
Ay naku,i often look at them straight and say,”Why ask,when you think you know my answer? So, please let’s not wast our time talking.”
I always get the “When are you getting married?” question…i hate it hehehe
that is one long list girl!
i hate the when are you getting married thing too. we are not living in the olden days now people haha!
it is annoying to answer these type of questions. Most of the time a simple smile will be enough to get away from the question…Cuz they do not expect you to answer any way….:-)
I agree they are annoying questions. As soon as you have one child the next question is when are you having a second cause you know it’s never a good idea to have an only child. After the second they say you’re done right…People always feel entitled to comment on the lives of others.
lol I often ask question number 23 especially to my friends who already got married but haven’t god kids yet
That is a terrific list and I am sure many of us have heard a lot of those questions, I know I have.
Hi Jade,
When people ask me questions I don’t like to answer, I grin, answer back in a polite way with, “Why are you asking?” or “You want to find out becuzzzz?” or ” Next question please”, and that totally surprises them to silence :=)
Cheers!
Hi Friend,
Just passed by to drop my card and visiting you too. This is a new blog of yours right? Nice to see you again. take care.
lol – annoying is right!
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Don’t bother those stupid question – be yourself and stay cool – your great
Sometimes, those questions are not meant to be answered because they’ve already passed judgment before you could even do so. Just ignore them.
Oh! I hate those questions too!! The current question that I hate answering is “So, how’s married life?” What am I supposed to say? That it isn’t good?!
Hahaha yeah.What I listed are just the questions,sometimes some people would even just state “facts”.
Hi Jade!
Don’t worry. just don’t dignify their questions with an answer and they’ll shut up =) In my case naman, since I gave birth almost 11 years ago, people are asking, “when will you have a baby again?” I am so tempted to say, “why? will you carry the baby in your tummy for 9 months for me etc, etc, etc…” I just feel like telling them to “sod off…” Oppsss =)