Too many things

clutterDon’t you sometimes think about how we have too many things in our possession?

Like while packing for our move, I found several things we hardly used. We have gazillion cooking pans while there’s actually only two of us and now that we live here in Singapore we hardly cook. We have about 20 wineglasses we won’t be using because we hardly drink wine anymore. I also saw some led home lights that are still in boxes.

I need to reorganize and have a system. I don’t wanna waste my time anymore trying to find things like my keys. I still haven’t found them by the way.

I found this really useful article called Minimalist’s Guide from Zen Habits and I thought of sharing it with you, I think this will be helpful to all of us. Read on…

Clutter, apparently, has invaded all of our lives.

And the inevitable fact is that, no matter how much we simplify our lives, even after a huge decluttering session and after a vow not to buy anything ever ever ever again … entropy always always sets in.

It starts out as one item on the floor. Just a simple box, or a toy, or a piece of clothing. Such a little thing, nothing to worry about. But that one little thing will attract a second, and then a third, and soon clutter will grow insidiously in our homes until it overwhelms us. And then we’re back to square one.

Don’t let it happen. Be vigilant.

Here are my favorite tips for beating clutter entropy, for the minimalists among you.

1. One in, two out. Make it a rule: for every new item that comes into your life, you need to remove two. That means gifts, clothes, shoes, books, magazines, anything. It’s great to have a place where you put things you’re going to get rid of … whether to give to other people or to donate to charity or to take to a used book store. Then you can just grab the stuff on your way out to do errands.

2. Limited storage. I like this rule because it fits in with my philosophy of self-set limitations: don’t allow yourself to have tons of storage space. The more storage you have, the more stuff you’ll keep. Instead, have limited storage and if stuff doesn’t fit in there, get rid of it. That forces you to make choices. They key is making those choices … if you don’t, you’ll end up with clutter.

3. Clear floors and flat surfaces. Keep them clear. A room looks so much cleaner if all flat surfaces, from the floor to tabletops to countertops, are clear of clutter. Remove everything from these surfaces except perhaps one or two decorative items (don’t clutter with knick knacks). If you find stuff making its way here, clear it out. Clearing surfaces once a day or every couple days is a good routine.

4. Designate a home for everything, and be fanatic. When you find stuff on flat surfaces, or draping over a chair, it might be because you don’t have a designated spot for that kind of thing. If you don’t, designate a spot for it immediately. If stuff doesn’t have a home in your home, you need to get rid of it, or it will forever wander around the house. The other problem might be that you have already designated a spot for it, but you’re just not good at putting it away. In that case, take a month to build up the habit of putting things where they belong immediately. It’ll make a huge difference.

5. Regular decluttering sessions. Put in your calendar. Even the best of us need to declutter regularly. If you’ve decluttered your home, things might be great now, but you’ll need to do clutter maintenance. Put it in your calendar: perhaps once a month, once a week, or once every few months. Experiment to see what interval works for your life.

Be content with what you have, rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you. - Lao Tzu

6. Reduce your desires for more. If clutter is coming into your life at a rate that’s too great for you to handle, you might need to look at your buying habits. Do you go shopping for clothes or gadgets or shoes or books every week (or more)? Are you always buying stuff online? If so, is it out of real necessity, or do you just like to buy stuff? It’s important that you take a look at these desires, and see if you can address them. Reducing your desires will go a long way to reducing your need to fight clutter.

 

9 Responses to Too many things
  1. Throwing away Stuff | MommaWannabe
    March 10, 2009 | 9:40 am

    [...] one of my previous post I told you that I realized that we have way too many things and it’s time to get rid of the stuff we haven’t use for atleast a year. So when hubby [...]

  2. Bruce
    March 9, 2009 | 6:26 pm

    Jade,
    Congradulations. When I found you on your other site, I did not realize your pregnant.
    About the memory problems, you too young and beautiful to have alzheimers. :-) p
    To have a laugh about memory, see the video on my site. The post is titled “Getting Older” http://americanindavao.com/blog/2009/03/getting-older/
    Enjoy

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    • MommaWannabe
      March 9, 2009 | 8:28 pm

      @ Bruce – I am not pregnant yet. We are still trying.

  3. Suzanne
    March 8, 2009 | 6:55 pm

    How can you live with all that clutter? I, myself, am a declutter-queen. I often get blamed for throwing away things that might have come in handy at one point or another. But I know that 90 of the things that you keep, will never come in handy. And it is just wasting space in your house.
    To save myself from decluttering too much and too often, I have a big box hidden away and in there go all the things that I want to throw away. If nobody in my household asked for it in one year time, it will go in the garbage.
    Of course I’m not telling anyone what I put in the box. If they don’t remember the item without seeing it laying around, that means it is not worth keeping.

    Suzanne’s last blog post..Embracing self care – Guest post by Life Coach Christine

    • MommaWannabe
      March 9, 2009 | 9:18 am

      @ Suzanne – Well the thing is that I keep stuff in case I could make somebody happier by giving it to them…maybe it won’t be of use to us but it will be a great help for them. I mean cooking pans could always be useful to anyone especially in the Philippines where life is very difficult, if I can ease someone’s life – then I would be very happy. That’s the reason why we do have too many things.

      I am now in the process of getting rid of the things that won’t really come in handy in the coming years.

  4. Connie
    March 7, 2009 | 12:59 pm

    I’ve bookmarked this list. I need help and lots of it in this area.

    Connie’s last blog post..Phokki Digital Art Review and Giveaway

    • MommaWannabe
      March 9, 2009 | 9:18 am

      @ Connie – yeah it’s a very simple and straightforward list huh? ;0

  5. eastcoastlife
    March 7, 2009 | 12:03 am

    I have a lot of clutter at home too. I need time to clear them.
    You still haven’t found your keys!?

    eastcoastlife’s last blog post..S$10 for a Room in Hotel Ibis Singapore – RT/ WW

    • MommaWannabe
      March 9, 2009 | 9:20 am

      @ ECL – No I haven’t found them yet;( Oh well I am sure it would show up when I am not looking for it.