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Too many things

clutterDon’t you sometimes think about how we have too many things in our possession?

Like while packing for our move, I found several things we hardly used. We have gazillion cooking pans while there’s actually only two of us and now that we live here in Singapore we hardly cook. We have about 20 wineglasses we won’t be using because we hardly drink wine anymore. I also saw some led home lights that are still in boxes.

I need to reorganize and have a system. I don’t wanna waste my time anymore trying to find things like my keys. I still haven’t found them by the way.

I found this really useful article called Minimalist’s Guide from Zen Habits and I thought of sharing it with you, I think this will be helpful to all of us. Read on…

Clutter, apparently, has invaded all of our lives.

And the inevitable fact is that, no matter how much we simplify our lives, even after a huge decluttering session and after a vow not to buy anything ever ever ever again … entropy always always sets in.

It starts out as one item on the floor. Just a simple box, or a toy, or a piece of clothing. Such a little thing, nothing to worry about. But that one little thing will attract a second, and then a third, and soon clutter will grow insidiously in our homes until it overwhelms us. And then we’re back to square one.

Don’t let it happen. Be vigilant.

Here are my favorite tips for beating clutter entropy, for the minimalists among you.

1. One in, two out. Make it a rule: for every new item that comes into your life, you need to remove two. That means gifts, clothes, shoes, books, magazines, anything. It’s great to have a place where you put things you’re going to get rid of … whether to give to other people or to donate to charity or to take to a used book store. Then you can just grab the stuff on your way out to do errands.

2. Limited storage. I like this rule because it fits in with my philosophy of self-set limitations: don’t allow yourself to have tons of storage space. The more storage you have, the more stuff you’ll keep. Instead, have limited storage and if stuff doesn’t fit in there, get rid of it. That forces you to make choices. They key is making those choices … if you don’t, you’ll end up with clutter.

3. Clear floors and flat surfaces. Keep them clear. A room looks so much cleaner if all flat surfaces, from the floor to tabletops to countertops, are clear of clutter. Remove everything from these surfaces except perhaps one or two decorative items (don’t clutter with knick knacks). If you find stuff making its way here, clear it out. Clearing surfaces once a day or every couple days is a good routine.

4. Designate a home for everything, and be fanatic. When you find stuff on flat surfaces, or draping over a chair, it might be because you don’t have a designated spot for that kind of thing. If you don’t, designate a spot for it immediately. If stuff doesn’t have a home in your home, you need to get rid of it, or it will forever wander around the house. The other problem might be that you have already designated a spot for it, but you’re just not good at putting it away. In that case, take a month to build up the habit of putting things where they belong immediately. It’ll make a huge difference.

5. Regular decluttering sessions. Put in your calendar. Even the best of us need to declutter regularly. If you’ve decluttered your home, things might be great now, but you’ll need to do clutter maintenance. Put it in your calendar: perhaps once a month, once a week, or once every few months. Experiment to see what interval works for your life.

Be content with what you have, rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you. - Lao Tzu

6. Reduce your desires for more. If clutter is coming into your life at a rate that’s too great for you to handle, you might need to look at your buying habits. Do you go shopping for clothes or gadgets or shoes or books every week (or more)? Are you always buying stuff online? If so, is it out of real necessity, or do you just like to buy stuff? It’s important that you take a look at these desires, and see if you can address them. Reducing your desires will go a long way to reducing your need to fight clutter.

 

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My Alter Ego

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This is my alter ego. Yep, don’t mess with me or I’ll throw a can of tuna at you. LOL!

Can you believe it’s Friday already? Geez time is surely passing by like a bullet.

This weekend, hubby said we need to finish unpacking all the boxes … I agree with him because it would be way better to move around the house without trying to squeeze in through boxes to get to where we wanna go.

Reminder to self – buy groceries and don’t forget the moth traps and some herb seeds too so you can start your herb garden.

I don't know how you do it …

Hi guys, just a quick post. Movingtired-baby starts tomorrow….so it would be really really busy the coming days. I ‘ll try to visit you guys when I find the time. Please bear with me.

I am so tired with all the preparations – packing and the cleaning up and then later on unpacking and cleaning up.

Seriously, I don’t know how you guys do it – having 2,3, 4 or more blogs, kids and other hobbies like scrapping etc.

I really admire bloggers who have a gazillion blogs and still manage to have a life.

Anyway, I will be holding a contest for my birthday next month, if you are interested to sponsor, please hop over to my expat blog for the details.

And if you are talented with designing a logo, I need one for the contest. Please contact me at samcj7 {at} yahoo dot com…that can be your contribution to the contest and you’ll get backlinks too.

So that’s all for now. I wish you guys a wonderful weekend!!!

Wannabe a Femme Fetale?

Fashion keeps on changing every year but one thing that doesn’t change is STYLE. And tuxedos are the embodiment of style.Why should we let men be the only ones to enjoy the alluring elegance of a tuxedo? If I had an event to go to, I’d definitely would want to wear a tuxedo. Don’t you just love women who can pull off a sexy look wearing just about anything ? Especially when they wear a feminine tuxedo. Just look at these female celebs who has definitely pulled off the classic sophistication of the tuxedo.

keira-in-tuxedorumer-willis-in-tuxedo

victoria-in-tuxedokatie_holmes-in-tuxedo

Now Brad, if ever Angelina doesn’t feel like going to another award ceremony, give me a call so I can wear one of these sexy tuxedo jackets!

Pregnancy Calendar

When I get pregnant, I would like to have a record of everything that I will be going through. I will jot it all down in a pregnancy calendar . From what I read; every week, there’s new development so I think it would be invaluable to track my baby’s development.

One type of pregnancy calendar is the ovulation calendar but if you have an irregular period like me, it wouldn’t be that useful. Ovulation calendar is used to track which days you are most fertile.

Pregnancy calendars on the other hand is used when you have successfully conceived. You can use it to make notes and document milestones during your pregnancy. Some ready made pregnancy calendars have information on what you should expect at that time. Your pregnancy calendar might need to be adjusted several times depending on the development and growth of your baby.

Make sure you consult your doctor immediately to get answers to your questions or bring your concerns to his or her attention. Never use it as a replacement for proper health care. For example, if the calendar states that you should be feeling movement and activity from your baby and you do not, then get in touch with your doctor to let them know. They may schedule an ultrasound to check the baby’s health or simply adjust the due date which will alter your calendar.

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Was I adopted?

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Raising Cacai's Fund

Hi guys and gals, my original plan was to sell my goods and dedicate the earnings to Cacai and support her in her recovery from this devastating event in her young life. But I am running out of time since we are already going away this Friday to visit our farm in another part of the Philippines. We will be going back to Manila on the 26th of November and then I will know the whole story.

So what I think that I can offer you guys who wanna help us out is an ad space. I will put your links on the sidebar of my blog when I get back from the Philippines.

  • $5 – link ad for one month
  • $25 – link ad for 6 months
  • $8 – 125×125 ad for one month
  • $40 – 125×125 ad for 6 months


You do not need to buy an ad if you don’t want to. You can also donate
any amount and it will still make a big difference.

If you do decide to have a text link ad, please email me your links at forlittlecacai@gmail.com and I will let you know when I come back when it will appear.

Click the pink button below if you wanna donate and it will redirect you to paypal site. If for whatever reason the badge doesn’t work, you can also send your donation to paypal add: forlittlecacai@gmail.com


Thanks for being still here with me…

UPDATE:
My contest winnings- $47.72
Ad Sales for Cacai – $20.00
Donation – $10.00

I have now $75.78 in total saved for Cacai.
Thank you for having such big hearts!

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